I came to the volunteer house expecting a sterile hostel, a place to simply rest my head in between hours spent at the Jei Krodua Clinic (TT Clinic), a place to study, rest and better myself in solemn reflection…Luckily, this was not the case, if it were, I would not be able to today call this place a home. And as cheesy as it is, home is where the heart is. During my stay, most of the rooms were vacant but the family: Franklin, Mary, Elizabeth, Mary-Ann and Josephine overflowed both myself and the entire family with chatter(enough to fill two languages),laughter and even without the Ghanaian heat the love and warmth they have, shared and showed me would have kept us all warm. Everything else, good and bad: the occasional lack of running water, blackouts (no fan!)(Both outside anyone’s control), Mary Ann’s amazing Ghanaian pizza… their company here in Ghana is what I’m going to remember, and our relationship for keeps.
Every member of the family here went above and beyond for the volunteers’ well-being, myself being no exception. They always genuinely cared and were concerned. Franklin was the sturdy backbone of my stay, when he told me to tell him if there were any problems at all, we knew that if God forbid something should occur, we had someone dependable only one phone call away. Even for non-life threatening situations for example when my fan broke, a standing one was immediately provided and the electrician called the next day, more meaningful, everyday Franklin would stop by to ask about my day. The girls are inspiring, they work so hard, they study so hard and they are somehow always good tempered, their company was always appreciated, yes my volunteer experience was fulfilling and it has further kindled my passion to serve and give but what I’m truly grateful for is the company of this family and will miss their effervescent smiles and conversations that bubbled throughout the day, every day.
I spent most of my time shadowing Dr.TT at the Jei Krodua clinic and two nights at Margo’s midwife/maternity clinic. To give you a sense of my experience here, the following is an abridged excerpt from the journal I have kept during my stay here. This was a few hours following my first time seeing a birth and here I was…”standing with green gloves on my hands, a pad in one, rubbing baby oil onto the girls forehead, like a shampoo, in my hands run smooth over her head, her head is so small not even the size of my hand. I’m afraid to turn her head afraid to hurt her, but as she acquiesces to my guidance I gain confidence, I want to wash this child, head to toe then back, the cutest baby, she cries and then stops, cries again, then stops…bundled in white, my left hand under her neck, my right a cradle, she is unexpectedly light, so very light. We pass the curtain together to mother, there is a silence in the room as if the world has stopped where everyone else is a bystander including myself, The mother and the girl, I gently placed the girl next to her mother on her side; the mother thanks me and life begins to trickle. Still quiet, I stepped out into the hallway with my back to the pale green wall thinking. I try to turn into sleep but it is difficult, the girl’s face remains ever so vivid in my memory, the scribe of our mind, the weight of life, so light. An OB protects life at its gates”. If you are so inclined, the medical staffs here are more than willing to guide you. Your experience will largely depend on what you want to experience. I had seen my first labor a few hours prior and here I was in the thick of it.
I ran into difficulties getting all my documents in order due to circumstances unrelated to IFRE, however, the company was very accommodating. Support was always prompt from the company and if any of other trips available through IFRE are a tenth as fulfilling and perfect as my trip to Ghana, it will be a trip worth and I recommend it.
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